.... love!

i have decided no more attractions no more heartbreaks...

 welll... if this is on someone's mind rite now...

 let me tell u very clearly!!!!

 it states... " angoor khatte hain..."

writing this blog i hav loads of thoughts on my mind .. some of my own.. some from my life.. some from incidents or  should i say ACCIDENTS!!! from lives of everyone.....;))

 observing this position i encountered three situations....

 where there were breezes of attraction , infatuations and then HEARTBREAKS!!!.. 

 OUCH!!!well... that word itself  hurts....rite??

and then questions!!!! wow!!! our mind starts questioning us like some kind of "personal knowledge" examinations!!!!!

 to make situation more pathetic!!!!

 why?? why me??? why only me???

what went wrong... god!!!! life is so unfair....

 god u are so unfair.... but

 having said all this... ek chez jo koi notice nahi karta is..

 agar life har waqt fair hoti.... toh shayad jis situation me hum khade hain.. voh situation hi life me nahi aati...

  answers to awll the questions of why and how and what should we do...

 when our heart is on the verge of bursting out is ... is just to let life flow it s way!!!!

sometimes life brings us to a situations where u have to break hearts those love u even when u don't want to...

 but those who do so.. should not consider themselves as "villains" 

 because hearts break.... u can do nothing to stop this...

saving everyone is not your job .... awl stories do not have happie ending...

 coz the most appropriate thing you can do is to be honest ! to yourself.... to them... not to think about what would happen if you say no!!... 

 coz telling them the truth is respecting their feelings... which is is the best!!!

 to open their eyes to the reality else than letting them be in their fantasies...  

 but, the sweetest part in every story are the memories.. jo koi nahi mita sakta...!!!

" mohabbat zindagi ki tarah hoti hai...

 har mod asan nahi hota 

 har mod par khushi nahi hoti..

 par jab hum zindagi ka saath nahi chodte ... toh mohabbat ka kyu chode"

 love your life and let it flow like a brook........ jahan kadam kadam pe khubsoorat nazare hain!!

  

friends.....

oyee!! call kar liyo yaar!!!
 these were the last words i said recently to my friend... wow... never expected life would be so difficult and so easy at the same time....
 just going through the pages of my slam book... all the noises of the dialogues passed through my ears.. flashes of all the funny moments spent together those screams, laughter,fights,crush... aaaaaaahhhh!!! 
but still... its "life"
its so strange that therezz one moment in our life where we just think yaar... i cant live without my friends... howzz this possible 
 yaar tum sab chale jaoge how am i gonna be in that stupid college alone.... i am never gonna forget u guyssss!!! rozz baat karenge! 
 mesg karenge and bataynge howzz life...
 and just one month .... every thing changes...
no tym!!!college lyf studies... every one busy in their own world
 new friends, again creating some new pictures forlooking at and smiling
 new laughs to be remembered some day....
 but still.... the older friends still in our hearts their place as it is untouched....  i mean 
 we meet them in same manner with same nick names!! and the most casual one... oye kamini/kamine howzz u??? dekha dagabaazz dhokebaazz chitthi na koi sandes jane voh kaun sa des jahan tum chale gaye!!!!!! 
 sharm ati hai yaa bech khayi!!!!
 and the response.... abbe haan haan tu toh jaise roz phone karti thi na!!!!!

 and hours and hours of non ending talks some about the past some about the present and kuch aage ki.....and ending up with phonecalls from moms and dads .. to their dear kids... in pure hindi with desi dhamki...."beta 10 min. me ghar pohcho!! koi hosh wosh nahi hai kya tym ka.. ghar aa tughe batati hu NALAYAK!!!!"..
 and then same promises... "call kar liyo yaar!!! sure sure.. arre kal kahi chale kya....chal phn pe charcha karte hai warna gharwale bahar nikal denge!! .. byee byee :)))) "
 .... howw is it possible that we can adjust ourselves and blend into different colours  so easily surprising and so funny!!!
 this is life... and so.. we gotta live it this way... 
 in our own way!!!! keep in touch... with your life...;)

... NA JAANE KYU?????

na jaane kyu hota hai ye zindagi k saath

 achanak ye man kisi k jane k baad kare phir uski yaad 

choti choti si baat......

 na jane kyu....

 these words.. lyrics.. when ever pass by our ears... 

 a number of people, memories, laughs, scenes, dialogues, fights, pictures,... just cant stop smilin right???

 yeah this is a kind of... senti post... 

 today where ever we are... we always think what kind of life izz this yaar

 just wanna get out of here... whether its school, collage, office... anything...

 but... today just going through our collage magazine...

 lookin at the pictures of the pass outs... lookin at their smiles donn know why.. just... a very strange

 kind of shivering passed through my whole body... by the thought that one day  me and my friends are gonna smile for the same picture.. 

 but behind that smile.. a very heavy heart.. with the pain of  missing this campus.. the friends 

 the canteen the classes... well... dunn know about the classes!!!  

 one thing that i have learned after 2 months in collage is 

 live this life cozz its never gonna come back just like my school days ... 

 where we promised each other that we would never loose contact, call, message, but..at the end everything ends there.... new friends , new group, new pictures ,everything....new!!! :))

 only the one thing that holds on are... memories... create them, donn loose them...

cozz they are the only way where you can get close to your old friends and smile... with smile on your lips and tears in your eyes and just faces of your friends in your mind ... those good and bad days you spent with them revolving all in your head uncontrollably... :)))

life ... is UnPrEdIcTaBlE

LIFE!!!! as expected always brings sumthin very unexpected!!!!
 like... just so impossibly unpredictable!!!
 we never have any idea about how the things would go... whats in store next!! always after every big or small action we just stay blank to the question what will happen now...
 just for example:
 exams hain... par prepration k naam pe kya padh rakha hai and... kya nahi..."pata nahi":O
course complete toh 5 din me karna hai.. but from where to start, which subject,which chapter..."pata nahi"!! :D
chalo exam ka din aa gaya!!! 
 but phir ek baar!!!
 kya padha hai aur Usme se kitna yaad hai ["pata nahi"]
 exam de aaye result.....YEAHH RIGHT!!!
 "PATA NAHI!!!" :)
and why only exams and results!!!! :O
 ...friendship, loveship, any where in any case you never know whats in store for you....
>you have  a crush on someone... but you dunn know how the person exactly is...what he or she thinks of u ???
 and sumtimes even confused weather its a attraction or... love :))
 life brings us every time to such a stage where you can say 
 "yaar.... pata nahi ab kya hoga!!!!!!!! ye kya ho raha hai meri life me!!!!!"
 at such a beautiful stage we can only wait! 
 no options else than to wait and watch and accept what ever it is!!
 What we can do is!                           To take it lightly and just learn from it! experience brings us more knowledge in "every field"

  never be afraid of experimenting!

 just do what you feel is right and it you have no answer to whether to take up the action or not
 then....DEFINITELY DO IT!!
 atleast you'll have no regrets and questions
 ki agar mai aisa kar leti/leta toh kya hota???
 if????
 cozz then we have no answer to that "IF"
sup!! just stay cool!!!! Donn worry for the result just do what your heart feels is right! :)
 there is nothing more exciting and surprising
 than your life 
 ENJOY IT!!! LIVE IT!!! AND YOU WILL DEFINITELY LOVE IT!! <3<3 ;))):))))

pathetic chapters of our lives!!

LIFE...gosh!! life ka sense of humor is so strange ....
where everyone is laughing except us! yup!! u r right .. i am talking about the moments of embarrassment!! 
u don't feel so bad when teacher asks u a question and u don't know the answer but u definitely feel pathetic when u know the answer and its wrong!!!!!! 
 u crack a joke and no one laughs!!
 u upload a status at facebook and not a single comment or like...
and talking about big embarrassing moments like u walk with great style in TI with many eyes on only you and suddenly you trip and fall... or u just dropped your mobile which shattered up into pieces jiski battry alag ,sim alag, keypad alag... and then....
 "AISA MERE SAATH HI HONA THA"!!!!
 its like for a moment you just want to wear paper bag on your face.. or just disappear in the air!!!
this says"unpredictable" when you never know how pathetic and deadly embarrassing life can get!!!! just in few seconds...
 but its ok! its life..!
 these moments somewhere teach you big lessons in terms of how to handle your situations 
 to be calm, not to panic 
 ab voh funny hue toh kya!!!
 these moments are so small.. but their impact is very strong ...
 these prove the bad days amongst our perfect life
 but reality is not always what you wish for... but definitely it paves the way for what is the best for you.
these moments where you feel like the biggest looser! kabhi kabhi prove the best medicine to boost you up!!
 like.. these are the phases from which you want to come out and so just decide to do so!
 to charge yourself up and show the world that NO ITS NOT TRUE 
 I AM NOT A LOOSER AND U PROVE IT!!!
so i believe that yaar.. what ever happens in life is for your benefit.. where for that moment you loose control over all your senses but walking a mile ahead of it you feel that ... it was necessary .. for me to get up from my relaxed mode and do some work!!!
 These moments weather they are embarrassing or really bad timings of your life... make you somewhere strong give you no option else than to forget about what happened and MOVE ON!!!  
the blog this time says >>>
"never get upset with these up and downs just hold on!
 fight with the circumstances fight with your bad days  and then 
 you will surely win!!;)

here i come!!!!

WELL...HELLO ALL!!!
 This is it!! finally here i am to share my views and ofcourse your views!:)basically i am gonna write my experiences which includes funny stuff like exam ki tension, last min. preparations, dil ka haal, mood swings, problems and basically "life"
I believe life is unpredictable...
 u never know .. k agle pal kya ho jaye... 
 jo aap chate ho voh kabhi hota hai toh kabhi nahi... nd ( mere case me toh kabhi bhi nahi!!)
 but... the thing which is the most amazing is ... at first u feel totally messed up!! for situation like.. kuch sahi nahi ho raha hai yaar ye kya ho raha hai meri life me!!!
 but slow and steady.. everything falls into place...
 my blog will be about these things... those include every experience of our lives, our experiences and analysis ... where i hope we can get answers of our questions ! :)